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Legal American Citizen

2/11/2018

 
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Legal American Citizen
© 2018 Hadassah Shabnam Lal
I am a 4th Generation Christian from Pakistan. My parents fled from Pakistan when my siblings and I were young children. It was my father’s desire to provide his children better lives, opportunities for education, success as well as prosperity that would not have been possible for us in Pakistan as Christians. As Americans we place our Hope in our God, as it is mentioned 129 times in the Bible which is the basis for our Judeo- Christian heritage as One Nation under God. I read somewhere that when a person arrives in this great country they can smell the freedom. Freedom permeates the very soul of America and drives heroes to sacrifice their lives in order to give ensuing generations’ as well present ones the opportunity to savor and cherish freedom. The Bible mentions freedom and liberty nearly 27 times. As you can surmise I love America. I became a proud United States Citizen in my early twenties. As a child, I was a witness to a war in Pakistan.  Our family was forced to flee the city of Lahore and go to our familial village. There were blackouts every night as we heard planes overhead shooting bullets at each other. The sound of bullets hitting metal is not one I will ever forget. Most Americans will never have to experience that because they were born in America. Only our Troops have endured such noises not to mention war atrocities. We were also discriminated against as Christians in everyday things such as not getting our bread baked in a Public oven simply because we were Kefirs, (Infidels). Imagine my hurt at such injustices. I thank God every day that I live in the United States of America.
As a grown adult with a son, I watch in utter disgust as people especially Media attack our current President Donald J. Trump relentlessly as they break laws, lie, cheat, deceive and delete to bring Americans twisted narratives and quite literally “Fake News.” Real Journalism has died (with the exception of Fox News, CRTV and NEWSMAX TV) as gossip laden juicy information is packaged to look like news as they bombard Americans at the speed of light on the Internet. Social Media avenues are like piranhas hungry for the almighty dollar as they craftily write and use algorithms created to exploit psychological weaknesses and vulnerabilities the expense of unsuspecting victims while pocketing large profits. People have become a commodity where “stars are created overnight” and fade away as quickly. Sadly somewhere the American dream has faded at the expense of those who made it possible, the great generations which are rapidly aging as emphasis is placed upon superficial beauty rather than character and true citizenship which was the hallmark of past generations. We endured eight years of the most biblically hostile lawless presidency in the history of the United States of America. He and his wife both had their law licenses revoked as did the opponent who ran against President Trump along with her husband a former impeached disgraced lying President. When the honor of becoming a United States Citizen was conferred upon me, I was given a set of Canons to follow as guidelines for being an American citizen. I honestly believe with God as my Witness that every child in the United States of America needs to be schooled in the responsibilities of being the citizen of the greatest nation on the planet means. In contempt I have watched those who were placed in governmental authority break the very laws they were elected to govern us with. The Rule of Law became a laughing stock under the prior lying, cheating deceiving administration that was ripe in Lawlessness, disrespect and utter lies. Treasonous acts were the norm at the highest levels. To say that I along with other fellow patriots are angry at all of this is an understatement.  I have seen these Canons broken by many who were born in America but show utter disrespect for this great nation the United States of America. Our National Anthem along with our Flag is routinely disrespected along with our Military and Law Enforcement. We have witnessed violent riots, and subversion by the Deep State. All of us need a reminder of our duties as Citizens of the United States. Thus I want to share these Canons with those born here and who love America and helped her resurrect from a Trip to the Cemetery with the election of President Donald J. Trump. May God bless and protect America along with our First Family.  These Canons of American Citizenship were written and presented by the local State Bar Association.
Canons of American Citizenship
  • Uphold the Laws of the United States, and the States and Communities
  • Defend our country from invasion and our government from overthrow by force, violence, or Subversion. (As of the 2016 election, foolish idiots cited the 1st Amendment as a excuse to incite and encourage violence, and protests).
  • Encourage respect for Law and Order and insist upon solutions of differences and grievances by processes of law and never resort to violence or other unlawful means.
  • Support those charged with the enforcement and administration of our laws; voluntarily act as a witness and serve as a juror.
  • Harbor no prejudice against anyone because of Race, Religion or National Origin. (As for the Democrat Party Liberals), this does not apply if you attack a White, Jew or a Christian).
  • Maintain pride in Family, Heritage and Church as well as in Community, State and Nation. (Much of today’s people are Godless although statistics suggest 70% of U.S. is still Christian).
  • Keep informed on issues and candidates, and vote in every election.
  • Respect the rights and opinions of others.
  • Participate in Religious, Charitable, and Civic, Educational or other activities to promote the welfare of the Community. (Nothing about riots is considered Community like).
  • Acknowledge that ‘Responsibilities’ are as important as ‘Rights’ for the preservation of Freedom and Justice. (Irresponsibility by Democrat Leaders, Deep State Operatives, the FBI, DOJ and CIA have become part of the American problem, as well as corrupt and unpatriotic doing very little to protect Freedom as they serve no purpose or Justice).

Defending Tom Brady Son Kiss

2/4/2018

 
Defending Tom Brady as Daddy#1
© 2018  (2/4/2018) Hadassah Shabnam Lal
               It recently came to my attention the ridicule and attacks on football quarterback Tom Brady for asking his son for a second kiss after receiving a harried one from his beautiful little boy Jack Brady. As a mom, I see nothing wrong with his request whatsoever. It’s such a shame that many have been so unkind. Just remember in this case Tom Brady is like a single dad, who does not have his son around him 24/7 as Jack is his son from his prior relationship with Bridget Moynahan.  As a single mom, I totally understand.
A Parents Viewpoint
How many millions of parents out there have watched their children grow up? And yearn to prolong the innocent years? The years that go by too quickly! Those sweet innocent moments when you still have a large piece of the heart of your child are beautiful and amazing! The love that is purely yours as a parent be it a mom or a dad, is short-lived. Soon you have to share it with their friends, peer pressure, girlfriends and boyfriends who will break their hearts as you sit by and nurse them and hold their hand and heart. While raising my son I had so many moments where I wish I could have borne his growing pains, his teenage years, his sorrow and pain. As a mother of my amazing son, I recall with fondness when he was young and mommy and daddy were his world. Those precious moments when I could easily garner a little kiss here, a little cuddle there, long bear hugs and sad goodbyes when he would go to visit his dad (my ex-husband on the weekends). Tom Brady along with his beautiful wife Giselle are amazing parents. Tom has proven himself to be a man who honors his commitment to his children. Jack is the son from his prior relationship with Bridget Moynahan. I was a single mom, and I cannot imagine what it is like for a parent who is unable to be around his/her child consistently as my heart used to often break when he would go to visit his dad, I would simply go and hang out with my mom. Sharing his son with Bridget has to be difficult for Tom, as well as for Jacks mom Bridget. I still recall with guilt a moment when my son was 5 years old and his visitation time came to an end one weekend; and Monday was a holiday. I tried to give my son the option to stay an extra day with his dad, and his eyes welled up with tears as he threw up his little hands saying “I don’t know mommy, I can’t make a decision.” That moment still haunts me 20 years later. Tom’s wife Giselle has vehemently defended him as a dad and rightfully so. No one knows him better than the mother of his children. This case is particularly painful because Tom will always be Jack’s daddy. No man on the planet can love Jack like his father. Let’s also remember the little boy at the center of the internet storm caused by some stupid, inconsiderate dimwit who wanted to capitalize on a beautiful moment between and daddy and his son. Shame on that person! Tom and Giselle are young parents, and he is a family man who is at the pinnacle of his career and she is a one of the world’s top models. Being a mom herself, I’m sure that Giselle does her best to be as loving with Jack as she is with their children together. They are presented with a quandary that most of us would not want. I have some dear friends who actually had someone call family services and file a complaint because he is the kind of father who gives his on bear hugs, picks up his kids and swings them around. He is a godly American Patriot with an equally amazing wife. He is someone who has served his country, was a first responder to the 9/11 attacks. Why bad things are conferred upon good people? Great parents? Weird? No! Creepy? No I believe it is because we are overloaded with a Hollywood culture which resembles more accurately HollyPervertHood. It has gotten to a point where holy, pure and beautiful love between parent and child has become tainted due to the perverse nature of the entertainment industry, rampant pornography, over sexualization of our children through Social Media Sharks and television, suggestive music and videos which I find even as an adult embarrassing, normalization of perverse nude images taken as selfies for the sake of publicity and money. Nothing is sacred any more, anything goes. Tom and Gisselle if you happen upon this blog, I hope that you will be encouraged. Keep on doing what you’re doing, loving your children unconditionally. I thought it was so cute and so boyish when Jack wiped his face, typical little boy behavior, you’re doing something right. And Bridget please, please give Jack as much time with his father as he wants (He will need that especially as he enters his teen years). I also advise you to read the books I recommend for Tom and Gisselle. Co-parenting a child is a tenous task, a lot of emotions and feelings are involved, time spent on your knees in prayer is essential to “raising up your children.”
A Manly Perspective (for Tom Brady)
               Since I was a single mother, I made a point of reading every book I could get my hands on in terms of parenting my son as I had full custody and responsibility to raise him. I’m a woman and have been a girl all my life, thus I was clueless on how to raise a man. What works for girls will not work for boys. As a Christian and a strong Woman of God,  I chose to read every book on the male and learn how to raise a strong well balanced young man. The task was not easy but I learned some important things along the way. Your children will need you more when they enter their teen years than while they are young or preteens. Peer pressure, and all of the above mentioned smart phone venues will fight you in raising your children and steal time away from raising them. Providing them with spiritual foundations is of utmost importance. Mothers cannot replace fathers and fathers cannot replace mothers. Your sons will need you in more ways than your daughters, but differently. Boys learn to become men from their fathers (good or bad). Girls will long for boys like their daddies. Daddy wounds can make or break a man. Two of the best books I have read and still reference are: (I wish I had them when I became a young lady); Wild at Heart by John Eldredge and Captivating by John and Staci Eldredge. Everywhere I go I have made it my mission to recommend these books to every mom I see anywhere, fathers, young men, young fathers etc. My son has actually led a Bible Study on the Wild at Heart Series and ministered to men twice his age. Another great book I used practically as a manual is: Boys “Shaping Ordinary boys into Extraordinary Men by William Beausay II. Also Raising Boys by Design, what the Bible and Brain Science Reveal about your sons by Dr. Gregory L. Jantz. Sadly our society has declared war on men since the mid 1970’s. The overtly sexualized Media entertainment industry has taken male weaknesses and issues capitalizing them for their own insidious agendas. Nearly 40% of abuse is committed against males. I could go on, but I will close with the following. A link to the beautiful song Butterfly Kisses by  Bob Carlisle to remind all of us how short the time is that we have with our children before they grow up.   
 https://youtu.be/vmC3rJR7E98
Just know that I speak for most decent hard working American Patriots and I totally support you all in your parenting. Oh the book The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman will be an indispensable tool in your parenting and marital relationship as well. Know that there are others who feel your pain, and have also enjoyed the gain of this thing called parenting . Your children are a loan that has the immense possibility to bear great interest. Keep on loving them. Love and God bless to you all.
I wrote the following for my son Rick in 2010 when he turned 18.
Too Soon an ode to my CubMan Rick
© 2010 Hadassah Shabnam Lal
I have watched you grow up; Too Soon
Those baby days are gone; Too soon
You began first grade; I cried
You entered junior high; I sighed
The high school graduation; I wept; Too soon
My wonderful awesome son
God gave you to me; a few years; a Loan from Him
It’s been hard to watch you grow up my CubMan now a Man;
Set you free; Too Soon…
P.S. He graduated college from IWU Suma Cum Laude’

butterfly kisses

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