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Profile Of An Abuse Victim in Church

8/15/2014

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Profile Of An Abuse Victim in Church © 2014 HadassahShabnamLal

It seems that abuse is quite rampant in the Church. Today, I spent nearly an hour listening to a kind and gentle, person telling me their story of abuse. It seems that this person was married to someone over 22 years. They even had a daughter who is in college. Sadly, this person's wife used to even give him a "bloody lip" and he was stupid enough to think that it was a joke and his wife was just playing around.

The warning signs were there. This person was even told by their future in law five min before the wedding ceremony that the prospective spouse and “ANGER” issues; ha imagine that. The spouse of this person, would constantly criticize this person and put them down, curse them, and call them names. In fact their spouse was in “ministry and radio ministry at that, and still is.” What a joke, seriously. When this person finally had the guts enough to leave, they were ridiculed and made fun of, and even scoffed at all the while the Bible verse “God hates divorce” was mercilessly used against them.” Their daughter was angry and blames them, as she had no idea there were threats, physical violence, and sexual abuse going on. Oh and just in case you don’t know, the victim in this case was a “MAN.” Yes, it is more humiliating for them, because there is an increased amount of shame when male abuse occurs. I am an advocate for abuse victims, regardless of gender. Oh and one more thing, I HATE ABUSE, I HATE ABUSERS AND FIRMLY BELIEVE THAT GOD HAS A SPECIAL PLACE IN HELL RESERVED JUST FOR ABUSERS. DEATH AND DESTRUCTIONS UPON ALL ABUSERS, AND I SAY THIS WITH THE KINDEST OF INTENT. I AM NOT GOD JR. THANK YOU.

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Full vs. Fulfilled by Hadassah 

8/5/2014

 
Full vs. Fulfilled

Hadassah Shabnam Lal © 2014

So many people out there have lives that are full but not fulfilled. Are you stuck in a pattern? You know that boring, non motivational pattern called life? You life is not standing still, but rather raging with activity (work, lunches, running the kids here and there, boring same old same old, predictable). It’s like an airplane stuck in a holding pattern because it cannot land at the airport to refuel. You are caught up with worldly stuff, and getting that next big raise, that next big break, that next big house. You are restless but you just can’t place your finger on it.

Your life right now is stuck on “cruise control” but it’s going nowhere real fast. Your life is staked out. You got your little church you go to every Sunday and sit in the same spot, listen to the same boring worship songs, same slanted messages from a preacher who likes to hear himself more than you like to hear him talk. Your career path (be it the same boring job) is all laid out, and you’ve been in that horrid marriage or a lackluster one, because you don’t have the guts to get out, and do what God designed and created you to do, you just can’t handle the change because you are lazy and you have partially died already. Am I preaching to anyone here.

Let me tell you something. When God created you, He placed that “spark” of life called the “Yud” from the moment you were conceived. That “Yud” represents eternity in the Hebrew. You are made in His image, as an eternal being. He placed his eternity in you. You see, your home, your marriage, your bank account, that big old church building, your love of sports, is all un-eternal. None of it will last forever. YHWH created you for eternity that lasts forever. That is why you are so un-fulfilled. Your life may be full, but it is unfulfilled. You were created to make a difference and leave a lasting legacy for those who come after you.

Almighty God, King of the Universe called you by Name, for a destiny greater than you can imagine. And guess what? He might have to turn your world upside down, just to get you there. Somewhere deep within your soul, deep in your heart, you long for something greater, and that’s the fire of eternity in your heart. In fact, medically your heart is the first major organ to develop after conception. You were called to make a difference in the life of somebody, or perhaps even a generation or a particular people for such a time as this (Est. 4:14). God is not a respecter of persons, He just wants you to fulfill your destiny. Be courageous like Yeshua/aka Jesus, who fulfilled His destiny all the way to the cross and in the process was pierced (John. 19:34) in His Heart for you and for me. Believe me, you don’t want to end up like Jonah in Whale University in the belly of a stinky whale (in this case your boring, complacent, cowardly existence). Be brave and get out there, and make an eternal difference. Be still and know that He is God (Isa. 46:10); if you want to stay in that holding-pattern like a plane circling an airport, or lead a life stuck on cruise control, then don’t complain about what you permit because your life will remain simply FULL but not FULL-FILLED.


Abuse in the Church 

8/4/2014

 
Please share this amazing site with anyone you know who is married to an abusive spouse (male or female); and the erroneous theology taught in the churches is keeping them in Hell. Let's not allow people to take one single verse ie: "God hates divorce"in the Bible to keep people in abusive marriages. God hates abuse more as it is a violation of the TEN Commandments. I have read the Ten Commandments [nope nothing about "thou shalt not divorce." While I don't advocate divorce I abhor abuse, and no one should have to tolerate it, or risk endangerment (their children & themselves) from abuse. Verbal, emotional, psychological abuse is just as bad as physical if not worse. Here is the link to Danni Moss's site on WordPress.
because it matters: freedom from abuse

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